VENUS VS MARS

Must it ALWAYS be about how different dudes and dudettes are...? I mean....what are we trying to prove..?who's better at doin things...? who's got the upperhand...?Well...if u asked me...its just too much of a workout.....:P
Take for instance....when a dude is goin through a rough patch in his life...Be it financially...sucky job...health problem.....he does sumtin which is unthinkable and nonsensical....(to the member of the opposite sex, that is...ehe) he decides to go into self seclusion....he shuns everything that matters...and everybody that cares bout him....here you are tryin your best to have a connection with the dude....and what does he do...?? He plays hide and seek with you instead....sighhhh.....
As we were busy with the new year hype....a handful of my GFs had been pourin' their hearts out bout their relationships woes....and herein lies the irony.....call it a woman's intuition...or maybe the over emotional side of a woman..(bet the guys are nodding in unison on this one...ahahaha) but to my discovery...it all boils down to the same crucial factor....the difference between a a man and a woman....the battle of the sexes, if u must....
The complaints are all SO familiar.... the dudes being out-of-reach...being emotionally unavailable....(which I've come to believe...certain characteristics that one has to learn to except and learn to live with...wink!) I mean....in all fairness...the blokes have a tough time relating to us too...so you gotta give them some credit for the effort...or for at least PRETENDING to make an attempt to comprehend....
But in all honesty....it would be highly appreciated and less stressful....if the dude were to just tell you what's botherin' him....just spell it out.....rather that having us to read your minds....(which doesnt take too much time....coz basically we know what's on your mind 24/7....wink!) Its just that...life for us ladies has evolved over the centuries....we're no longer JUST breeding machines...(although i hav GFs who loves being one! dont ask...ehehe)we have all sorts of responsibilities that requires jugglin'....
So lets celebrate our differences....and meet halfway.....(never thought I'd be takin advice from a band....:P)